Oh yeah, absolutely agreed about the long cutscenes, they do suck. You must remember that I cut my teeth on FFT challenges so I'm used to that sort of garbage, you don't want to know how many times I've seen Barinten get thrown off a roof, or Wiegraf's whiny speech, or Gafgarion telling Ramza to haul ass back to Igros.
Exdeath 1 I recall being easy outside the chance of Doom to start the battle (which you can cast Return to get around). Golem/Carbuncle, or just Protect/Shell if you'd rather run White/Mix than Summon (but Summon provides offence). You could also get all the defensive buffs if you dropped Time Mage, but I love my Haste too much. FF5 buffs are amazing things. In fairness, FFX's are too, but the game designers are a bit more aware of this and bosses remove positive status more, and/or have other tricks to circumvent them). FFX's enemy damage scale is also a bit higher to start with, but the biggest thing is that in FF5 solos you get a big level boost which roughly doubles your HP.
I didn't find Monk very useful at all, past the earlygame, as usual with FF5. Barehanded was nice if you needed to give other jobs physical damage (although that falls off by mid world 2 even with the level boost IIRC) but that was about it. I certainly didn't get HP+30. The one thing I banned to ensure I actually had to make choices was Mix (since Mix has like every buff ever but is annoying to farm things for) but that wasn't really necessary or anything.
Saga Frontier does feel like one worth trying at some point!